Read ALL the reviews, not just the "Top Reviews"!
"I've learned to take reviews with a grain of salt because I'm also quite opinionated. That being said, I'm a single man with no physical interaction with anyone but myself. I wanted something that would give me added arousal but not require so much effort, like the irritable pleasure sleeves. This "seemed" to be the perfect option. Several reputable publishers (GC, Rolling Stone...) have this in their Top 10, suggesting it's the best of this particular toy. I tend to disagree.
In starting, as so many others have said, it's quite tight. I'm an average caucasian, and it's overly snug. I also don't shave down there. The ring immediately shifts from the base of my shaft as soon as I start my motions, grinding hair underneath the overly tight band to the point I develop a chafing rash. The tightness is also to the extreme of leaving imprints on my shaft.
Then there are the controls. Again, I agree with the lower rated reviews. Considering lube MUST be used to get this into place, it becomes quite a challenge to cycle through to find the ideal mode and intensity. I've used basic on/off rings before that are far more simple and pleasurable to use and far less in price.
For what it's worth, I would not recommend this ring at all. It's overpriced, uncomfortable, cumbersome to adjust setting and, because of its intended use, not returnable. Settle for a cheap stretchy one with one or two settings for $15-20."
Do yourself a favor... Buy it!
"Ok, I am a huge LELO fan. I have other LELO products, so I was eager to give this one a try. OMG, it is wonderful!
Waterproof, rechargeable, stretchy, 1 year warranty, a lifetime limited warranty,and a bonus for both partners. Who could ask for more?
In regards to some of the other reviews, about stretchiness, breakage, and fit: It STRETCHES! The key thing is to not try to pull and stretch the ring right at its thinnest point. It will be weakest at its thinnest point, that is simple physics. But if you stretch it at the sides, at the wider spots, it stretches just fine, with no risk of breakage. If I were so inclined, I could stretch it enough to put it around my hand. It is silicone, so you will just have to stretch it slowly.
On the off chance that it does break, just contact LELO's warranty department, and they will help you. They have wonderful customer service, and every product comes with a card, with a unique ID #, to register on their website. Registering your product does NOT mean you will get any SPAM. You can select whether or not you want to receive any email from them.
As for how it works... well, without going into details... IT WORKS REALLY REALLY WELL. The button controls can take a little bit to get used to, but my advice is to pick a setting you enjoy, and well, enjoy. At first you may think the vibration isn't enough, but as you get into things, trust me, it's enough.
The battery is rechargeable, charges quickly, and holds a charge very well. It is fully waterproof, so you can take your fun to the shower, pool, or wherever. Very easy to clean.
I have nothing negative to say, only positives. My husband has zero complaints. If you are looking at this, and trying to decide, do yourself a favor, and buy it. You won't be sorry."
Great ring for me...Mediocre for her
"This silicon ring stretches and maintains the perfect pressure for me. The vibrations feel great throughout my shaft and, if turned upside-down, feels awesome on the balls, too. For me, this is a great addition to "fun time".
My wife, on the other hand, isn't too impressed with the vibrations. She doesn't mind them, they just don't do anything for her. Though, she has never been much for vibrations...
The Tor is easy to charge, easy to clean, and is a lot of fun in the shower. It uses the standard Lelo charge port so, if you have other Lelo toys, the charger can be shared.
Edit: After a year-and-a-half, the charge port has pulled out and the unit cannot charge. Going through Lelo’s Warranty process now, so we will see...
Update: As Lelo clearly states on their website and in their warranty information, all they could offer me outside of the 1-year period is a 50% discount on their website. I didn't push the matter but it's too bad I can't use this device any more.
If you purchase this ring, just be very, super-extra careful when you pull the charge plug out. Make sure you hold this silver ring on the device side in place as you pull the plug straight out (don't twist it)."
